Visiting The Dead

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Extensive Damage to NJ Cemetery

One of the top news stories in the NJ/NY area the last few days has been the extensive damage done to a Jewish cemetery in New Brunswick, NJ by vandals. From the [NJ] Star-Ledger:


"Hundreds of headstones were overturned at a New Brunswick cemetery largely used by two synagogues, authorities said today. Police believe the acts of vandalism were committed over two different days. On Wednesday people found 17 headstones knocked over at the Poile Zedek Cemetery on Joyce Kilmer Avenue, but hundreds more were found overturned at 8:55 a.m. Sunday, police said. A total of 499 headstones were overturned."

According to
an article in the N.Y. Times:
With some of the stones weighing more than 2,000 pounds, New Brunswick police said the rampage had involved more than one person and taken several hours.

Jack Oziel, a member of Etz Ahaim whose parents’ tombstones were shattered, said the synagogue was organizing a fund-raising event to replace the gravestones in cases in which there were no surviving family members.

“Some of these people died 50 or 70 years ago, and there are no survivors,” said Mr. Oziel, 92. “So it becomes the synagogue’s problem. We have to remember these people, and the only way we can do it is by righting these stones.”

A half-dozen members of the New Brunswick Police Department tried to right some of the stones that had been toppled but not broken. “A lot of family members are coming here,” said Lieutenant Mangarella, calling the overturned stones a terrible thing to see. “If we can prop them up and give them a little relief, we will.”

Our condolences go out to the families who are suffering as a result of this senseless destruction.

-- Caspra

Being a computer geek …

... this image always makes me smile. I'm sure that "Reformat" really is their family name and that the stone was carved long before hard drives were routinely formatted and RE-formatted. But it still strikes me as funny. (From a cemetery in NW Indiana.)

-- Caspra


How can one not be touched by this lovely stone?

(From a Catholic cemetery in NW Indiana.)

-- Caspra


This one has always haunted me

This family lost two children in two years. The first, a son, was born in 1973 and lived just 8 hours. The next year, a girl survived only 15 hours.

I want to know how these babies died. But even more I want to know what happened to the parents in the years that followed. Did they ever have a healthy child that lived to adulthood? How did they deal with their grief? Were they able to have anything close to a normal life, in spite of their loss? (From a Catholic cemetery in NW Indiana.)

-- Caspra


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